Life is a vicious circle. Whatever goes around comes back.
There was a time when a good friend of mine used to call me and tell me that his girl friend doesn’t know how to talk romantically with him. It was a kind of strange thing to hear and I often wondered that instead of telling me that, he should tell her how he felt but then he used to say that he gets bored with her. So instead of messing up things, I decided to speak to her and convey her what problems he was having not realizing the fact that she would take it otherwise that her boy friend was opening her heart out to me.
I know it’s a regular story but then that time I was single and to be very frank there came a time when I too enjoyed that attention that I got from him. But…..
I am not single anymore but somewhere I have come across the same situation but from a different point. Today I am the girl friend and my better half feels bored and says that why I have to think and talk and why can’t I talk to him all the time freely.
I have been put in someone else’s shoes to understand how she would have felt that time. My boy friend has big social circle n innumerable ‘good’ friends. It’s not that I don’t want him to go and meet his friends but then whenever I am not able to meet him, he has his friends at his rescue. He has complained the same things that I used to once hear as a friend. I have been trying to mend things but then somewhere I feel cursed from a hurt heart.
I indeed have realized my mistake because in spite of trying hard I am losing the person I love the most.
